JUST WHO DOES SHE THINK SHE IS?

OK.....SO YOU CAN SAY THAT I AM ANGRY. WHO IN THE WORLD DOES SHE THINK SHE IS ANYWAY? MY COUSIN AND I DISCUSSED HER WATCHING MY KIDS ON VALENTINE'S DAY SO SCOTT AND I CAN ENJOY A NIGHT OUT. IT IS NOT LIKE I ASK ANYONE TO WATCH THE BOYS FOR ME ON A REGULAR BASIS. I JUST WANT ONE NIGHT TO ENJOY TIME WITH MY HUSBAND. IS THIS TOO MUCH TO ASK? WHERE DOES MY SISTER GET OFF ASKING IF I AM GOING TO PAY HER FOR WATCHING THE BOYS? THAT IS BETWEEN MY COUSIN AND MYSELF, FRANKLY IT IS NONE OF HER (MY SISTER'S)BUSINESS. THEN TO SAY THAT I MIGHT USE HER AND TO BE CAREFUL...WHAT THE F@@K? WHERE DOS MY SISTER GET OFF CRITICIZING MY LIFE? I MEAN THINK ABOUT THIS FOR ONE SECOND IF YOU WILL.... SHE IS 30 YEARS OLD, MOVED OUT OF MOMS HOUSE AND INTO HER MOTHER IN LAWS HOUSE, EARNED A COLLEGE DEGREE, BUT WORKS IN A GROCERY STORE. WHAT RIGHT DOES SHE HAVE TO JUDGE ME AND MY LIFE?
I KNOW MY LIFE IS NOT PERFECT AND I HAVE MADE SOME MISTAKES, BUT WHO HASN'T. YES, I SHOULD HAVE FINISHED SCHOOL, BUT WHAT I ACCOMPLISHED FAR OUT WEIGHS THE THINGS I SHOULD HAVE DONE. I AM 32 YEARS OLD AND HAVE PUT 10 YEARS INTO A COMPANY. WHEN I LEFT THAT COMPANY I WALKED AWAY WITH OVER 28,000 IN MY 401K WHICH I ROLLED INTO AN IRA. I HAVE A PENSION, SO ONCE I REACH RETIREMENT AGE THEY HAVE TO GIVE ME MONEY EACH MONTH. (IF THE COMPANY STILL EXISTS THEN) I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 9 YEARS AND AM RAISING 3 TERRIFIC KIDS. YES, I AM STRUGGLING, BUT I WOULD RATHER STRUGGLE KNOWING THAT WHAT I HAVE I WORKED HARD FOR,THAN CRITICIZE THE REST OF THE WORLD FOR THE THINGS THAT THEY HAVE AND I DON'T.